The following is shared from cafeastrology.com
Friday, JULY 1
This morning, the Sun and Saturn form a sesquiquadrate, and we can become more aware of, or frustrated by, our limitations. This transit can close us up or narrow our focus. We could feel confined or restricted regarding our plans and self-expression.
Tonight, Mars and Pluto form a square, and we crave a sense of control over events, relationships, or circumstances and become frustrated at any sign that we don’t have it. However, attempts to gain control or power tend to be fruitless. This square can stir intense desires that may not easily be satisfied. There may be arguments, standstills, and power games. It would be wise to observe and learn from whatever powerful feelings arise through confrontations or conflicts. We should try to remain flexible, perhaps devising strategies for achieving our goals rather than attempting to push them through at all costs.
I’d like to look more closely at Tanster’s Venus in Capricorn and how it interacts with the aspects in Koand’s chart. His planets are in red and anything requiring an accurate birth time (houses, ascendant etc.) may be inaccurate as I do not have a verified birth time. Relevant data follows:
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Venus Aspects
Venus shows what a man is attracted to in a woman. Being with a woman who is strong in his Venus element, or who makes close sextiles to his Venus makes the relationship much easier, and increases sexual desire and compatibility. For a woman, her Venus is part of her feminine nature, so it is definitely best when her partner also relates well with this element. When people have positive Venus synastry, they naturally like and love each other. That, of course, is what makes positive Venus synastry so great.
Venus Trine Pluto
This couple may want to have children. You feel a flow of passion, the intensity of which drives you to be with your romantic partner, make love, transform, heal, even possess your lover, and yet there's something about all this powerful emotional experience which all feels very natural to you at the time. When the first person’s Venus is trine the second person’s Pluto, they are very likely to view you as a soul mate, that one fated romantic love that will free him/her from the pain of loneliness or failed relationships, burning away the past by going to extremes, and penetrating to the essence of physical and spiritual love.
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Symbolism Of The Sun And Venus
The Sun depicts our personal identity, glory, aspiration, dignity, and nobility. It also symbolizes our self-worth and strength.
Its presence in our natal charts establishes our life purpose. The Sun helps us rationalize things, tells us where to be independent, and how to make the best decisions.
The Sun also reveals areas we have a natural affinity for and how we can shine there.
On the other hand, Venus rules over beauty, attraction, love, art, and style. When Venus is in a sign, it reveals the things that attract us. It also shows us how we relate to others and the way we behave around other people. Not only that, but Venus also reveals our principles and the things we value.
Positive Aspects Of The Sun Trine Venus Synastry
The attraction between Sun and Venus is mutual in this synastry.
The Venus partner loves the charismatic confidence and natural strength that Sun possesses. The Sun person is enamored with their partner’s style, charm, expressiveness, and affectionate personality.
This attraction ensures both partners pull their weight in the relationship. So it is common to see Venus and Sun supporting each other’s goals and dreams.
In addition, both signs will encourage their partner to fully express their pleasure-loving and playful sides. Since Venus and Sun are attracted to the same interests, for example the arts, the playful energy around them is always harmonious. This harmony makes them equal partners in the search for pleasure and comfort.
However, even though they both love the arts, both signs are likely to express their creativity through different mediums.
For instance, Venus could be consumed with hobbies that require artistic expression such as painting, sculpting, decoration, designing etc. And since the Sun loves the spotlight, they would naturally opt for dramatics, dance, or the theatre.
Naturally Defined Roles
In the relationship, the Sun partner naturally assumes the leadership role. But this does not happen because Venus is intimidated by the strong personality of their partner. It is mostly because Venus is content to take the back seat and does not feel overshadowed by their Sun partner.
This clear definition of roles thoroughly benefits both signs. With the absence of any leadership tussle, the Sun partner relaxes their guard and becomes comfortable with their Venus partner.
This in turn creates the right atmosphere for the Venus partner to fully express their affectionate nature without holding back.
Negative Aspects Of The Sun Trine Venus Synastry
There is always the flip side of the coin, and the Sun trine Venus synastry is no different. The most common cause of discord between both signs is their different value system.
Different Values
Venus loves to constantly indulge in a decadent lifestyle. And while the Sun partner does like their pleasures, they believe it should be done once in a while not always.
Besides, Sun views their Venus partner constant seeking for pleasures as unnatural. These different views leads to disagreements and rifts between both signs.
Sun is ambitious, driven, egotistical, and determined to achieve their goals. When Sun is this focused, they don’t allow anything to stand in their way including their partners.
But, this may cause the Sun to unintentionally hurt Venus feelings and even overstep their boundaries.
When this happens, you get a situation where Sun is laser-focused on their aspirations while their Venus partner tries to keep the relationship conflict-free.
Caring Gestures Are Not Reciprocated
Also, Venus desire to live in harmony will see them bending backwards for their Sun partner.
They will usually go out of their way to please their Sun partner even to their detriment. Venus does this because they expect Sun to reciprocate their gestures. Sometimes, it works but mostly, Venus does not always get what they want.
The Sun person is always too focused on their own path to return the love and support they get from their Venus partner. Besides, Venus willingness to compromise only makes their Sun partner unappreciative of their gestures and takes them for granted.
Manipulative Tactics
But, in a bid to counter the Sun’s dictatorship and egotism, the Venus person can resort to manipulative tactics such as passive-aggressiveness. Venus can even charm or flatter their partner into doing what they want.
Also, Venus penchant to bend backwards for Sun and the lack of reciprocation from their partner can cause Venus to resent their partner. When there is no resolution, Venus affections and love can devolve into hate.
Creating Harmony In The Sun Trine Venus Synastry
Venus need to overcompensate for Sun’s shortcomings deeply points to their low self-esteem, insecurity, and lack of confidence.
This low self-esteem keeps them from sharing their creativity with other people and even partners. Also, their lack of assertiveness and people-pleasing ways usually makes others walk all over them.
With this in mind, Sun can work with Venus to build confidence in themselves and their identity. Sun can also teach Venus the techniques for setting boundaries so as to keep them from being doormats.
In addition, Sun should not always be focused on their goals as it causes them to neglect their Venus partner.
Instead, the Sun person should make a conscious effort to reciprocate the gestures and attention of their Venus partner. Carving out the time from their busy schedules to make an emotional connection with their Venus partner can do the relationship a world of good.
Last Words
The Sun trine Venus synastry is good for both platonic and romantic relationships. The combination encourages teamwork and harmony causing both partners to be at ease with each other and contented in their relationship.
With that said, both signs should watch out for conceit in each other. Also, Venus and Sun should ensure that they both do their part in making one another happy.
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The Overall Theme For Mercury Trine Venus Synastry
Do you ever feel like your partner just “gets” you? If you have Mercury trine Venus synastry, you’re likely to feel this way all of the time. This is because when Mercury and Venus are in trine, communication goes smoothly and both people feel considered.
Both partners will find that they share the same values and have a similar way of looking at the world. This can make for some very pleasant conversations, as you’re both on the same wavelength.
Because of this, when there are disagreements, the other person is usually willing to listen. They understand where their partner is coming from and are usually excited about learning more.
These two people are similar enough to relate to each other while offering enough of an outside perspective to keep things interesting. In other words, they understand each other without being too similar.
This is a couple that enjoys spending time together and has a lot of fun doing so. There is rarely a dull moment when these two are together. If you have Mercury trine Venus synastry, make sure to take advantage of this and revel in your time with your partner.
While Mercury trine Venus synastry is a very pleasant and enjoyable placement, it’s not all fun and games. This aspect also has a serious side that can help promote growth in the relationship.
Both partners will find that they are able to learn from each other more and more as the relationship deepens and matures.
The Venus person can help the Mercury person see the beauty in life and to slow down and enjoy the moment. The Mercury person can help the Venus person see things from a different perspective and to think more logically.
One area of life that these two will develop together is their finances. The Mercury person is likely to be very logical about money, while the Venus person has a more creative approach.
Together, they can find a balance that works well for them. They both appreciate security and consistency, so they are likely to be very stable financially however they choose to manage their money.
These two people are already gifted with social intelligence. However, when they learn new things from each other, they become even more well-rounded. This is a couple that other people feel comfortable around and feel they can talk to.
Finally, this is a couple that is able to support each other’s dreams. There will be many discussions about what each person wants to do with their lives and how they can help the other person achieve their goals.
They both enjoy having certain standards in life, so they are likely to create a lifestyle that meets both of their needs. This can lead to a very harmonious relationship.
While this is generally a very positive placement, there are some potential struggles that come with it.
The first is that the Venus partner may get too comfortable and stop trying to improve themselves. This is because they feel so loved and understood by their partner that they don’t feel the need to grow. However, the Mercury person needs stimulation and may start to feel restless.
The second potential struggle is that the Mercury person may start to take the easy way out and avoid conflict. Because they understand their partner so well, they know how to push their buttons. They may start using this knowledge to manipulate the Venus person into getting what they want.
If these struggles are not addressed, they can lead to resentment and eventually break the relationship apart. However, if both partners are aware of them, they can easily be overcome.
Even if there isn’t any conflict in the relationship, due to the trine, there can be a feeling that something is missing. This is because the trine represents ease and harmony. While this is generally a good thing, it can sometimes lead to a feeling of complacency.
Both partners may start to take each other for granted and stop putting in the effort they made at the beginning of the relationship. It’s important to keep the spark alive and to continue growing together, even when things are going well.
Here are some helpful tips that can keep these relationships strong:
Get comfortable with discomfort: This relationship is so easy that it may get boring! Both Venus and Mercury people need a little bit of excitement and stimulation to feel alive. It’s important to push each other out of your comfort zones from time to time and to try new things together.
Be honest about your needs: Because this relationship is built on understanding, it’s easy to communicate with each other. However, if something isn’t working for you, speak up! Your partner wants to make you happy and will be more than willing to work with you to find a solution.
Share fun projects together: These two love to learn and grow together. A great way to keep the relationship fresh is to find a project that you can work on together. This can be anything from starting a business to writing a book. It’s a great way to bond and continue growing together.
Mercury was known as Hermes in Greek mythology and is the messenger of the gods. In astrology, Mercury is associated with communication, intelligence, and commerce. It’s also known as the “planet of mental activity.”
Mercury rules the 3rd house of communication as well as the 6th house of work and service. It’s considered to be a benefic planet, which means it generally has positive effects.
Mercury people (Geminis and Virgos primarily) are quick-witted and love to learn new things. They’re also very good at communicating their ideas to others. Mercury is primarily concerned with the mind and how it works.
People with misaligned Mercury placements in their charts can be scattered, nervous, and indecisive. They may also have a hard time communicating their thoughts to others.
Venus is the goddess of love and beauty in Roman mythology. In astrology, she is associated with those things as well as luxury, pleasure, and relationships. Venus is known as the “planet of love.”
Venus rules the 2nd house of possessions and the 7th house of relationships. It’s considered to be a benefic planet and is known for bringing opportunities and luck.
People with strong Venus placements (such as Libras and Tauri) are romantic and charming. They’re also often very beautiful and have a strong appreciation for art and beauty. They may be materialistic, but they also know how to enjoy the simple things in life.
Weak Venus placements can indicate a lack of self-worth or difficulty expressing love. These people may also have trouble with relationships or be attracted to the wrong type of person repeatedly in life.
In astrology, an aspect is an angle between two planets. The trine aspect is a 120-degree angle and is considered to be very favorable. It represents ease, harmony, and natural ability.
When two planets are in a trine aspect, they flow together easily and there is a feeling of effortlessness. This can be a very positive thing, but it can also lead to complacency.
We have trines in our natal charts as well as our synastry charts. Paying attention to the specific planets involved can give us insight into how we interact with others and what areas of our lives are effortless for us.
If you have planets in a trine aspect in your chart, it’s important to make sure that you’re using the energy of the aspect in a constructive way. Otherwise, you may find yourself feeling bored or restless.
Final Thoughts
If you have Mercury trine Venus synastry, make sure to cherish this placement. It’s not often that two people are able to understand each other so well. Enjoy the communication and the fun times, but also use this aspect to continue growing and learning together.
It’s also important to take a look at your chart and see which planets you have in your trine aspects. See how you can use the energy of those planets to make your life more enjoyable and productive.