The following is shared from cafeastrology.com
Sunday, JUNE 26
The Moon spends the day in intelligent Gemini. With its alignment to Venus early today and sextile to Jupiter this morning, our mindset is happy, friendly, and optimistic. Venus will form a sextile to Jupiter in two days, and this energy is a preview. We’re communicative, curious, and connected. The Gemini Moon can be somewhat detached–we may be living in our heads in some manner today, and we might fully enjoy exchanging ideas and information.
An explanation of the symbols can be found at astro.com
Let’s look at Mars in the synastry chart of Tanster & Koand. I’ll post relevant data pertaining to Koand’s Mars in Capricorn. We’ll just focus on that Mars today:
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Moon-Mars aspects can be really exciting, emotional, and sexually magnetic, but they can also cause a lot of tension and arguments in a relationship.
Typically, the Moon person is more emotional in the relationship while the Mars person is more action-oriented or fiery.
At best, the Moon person provides a secure home base for the Mars person to take action from, while the Mars person adds spice to the relationship through actions, ideas, and a general fiery energy.
Moon Square Mars Synastry
If you have the Moon square Mars synastry aspect, you may find that the Moon person takes out their complaints and emotional frustrations on the Mars person. This usually happens because Mars tends to make the Moon person feel unusually dependent, which they don’t like.
The Mars person draws out any neediness in the Moon person, which can make them fearful or depressed. Over time, they may shut down emotionally to stop this from happening or pretend that their feelings don’t exist. The relationship threatens the emotional walls that they have built up.
This emotional rollercoaster can be really exhausting for the Moon person. However, the Mars person doesn’t understand why the Moon person can’t just push back. The Mars person tends to take action and they simply don’t see the emotional vulnerability in the Moon person.
With the Moon square Mars synastry aspect, it’s hard for both people to relax when together. Resentment builds up over time and the relationship can start to feel really tense.
The Mars person can be really encouraging of the Moon person if they learn to slow down and listen to the emotional issues that are being triggered within the Moon person. They must also learn how to slow down and work on tempering their actions that don’t take the Moon person into account.
However, with this Moon square Mars synastry aspect, it’s really important that the Moon person is willing to do the emotional work and figure out why their neediness and emotional issues are being triggered.
The Moon person can really make or break the relationship with the Moon square Mars synastry aspect. If they can work on their coping mechanisms and open up, then this relationship can blossom and be quite passionate.
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Mars-Mars aspects can be very sexually charged, emotional, and may also lead to deeper problems or advancement in a relationship.
With these aspects, both people are charged and passionate in their own ways, and sometimes this charge can create friction in the relationship.
At its best, both people work together and create something unique. This drive can work together and create a flow in the relationship that pushes them forward rather than holding them back. At its worse, both people may feel held back, angry, and hurt by the relationship.
Mars governs how we go after what we want, our drive, but also our anger and how we fight. Having mars aspects in synastry can create a volatile relationship.
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Mars Trine Mars Synastry
With Mars Trine Mars Synastry Aspect, the relationship feels very well starred from the beginning. There is a fundamental energy that you are teammates with your partner, and you are on the same side together. This is a less volatile and frustrating aspect than Mars Conjunct Mars Synastry, and may lead to fewer fights and resentments.
This aspect brings out the best qualities of both people’s mars placements, and it may feel as though martian energy flows naturally. Initially, Mars Trine Mars Synastry Aspect has a lot of sexual energy and flow to it. Both people are very naturally attracted to each other, and this sexual chemistry is not something that dies out of the relationship as it progresses.
The difficult traits of Mars are fighting and volatility. This aspect seems to wean that out of both partners, and they have excellent communication skills together. With Mars Trine Mars Synastry Aspect, both partners feel understood, but not overly understood to the point where communicating is in vain.
When Mars Trine Mars Synastry couples fight, these fights actually bring the two closer together rather than pulling them apart. Martian energy in general makes the relationship better, so they may find that after intimate physical moments, or a fight, they feel more in tune with their partner and closer with them than before.
This is a very goal oriented aspect, and both people tend to understand each other’s individual and career goals. They support each other naturally, and don’t need to try to impose their beliefs or understandings onto the other person. There is a respect of individuality in a Mars Trine Mars Synastry relationship, in a way that promotes a healthy balance and understanding of each other.
This couple enjoys doing activities together, and being out in the world. Their best dates involve doing activities, and they both feel more energized in each other’s presence.
This can be a very helpful aspect in a relationship, especially one that has other volatile aspects. This can help balance out a relationship and make physical martian things more tolerable.
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Saturn in Synastry: Relationship Astrology
When Saturn in one chart forms an aspect with another person’s personal planet or point, the energy interplays between the two people are distinct. Saturn is the planet of restriction, commitment, and reality. We usually find Saturn interaspects with personal planets in long-lasting relationships. These aspects play out over time and often manifest in clear stages.
At the outset, there can be some resistance or reluctance to forming a relationship and/or a commitment with each other on one of the individuals’ parts, as if he or she senses that committing to the other person will involve something heavy. Once that initial reluctance (which can range from vague to explicit, depending on the power of the Saturn interaspects and the individual temperaments involved) passes, there is generally a wonderful feeling of familiarity and safety with one another. These people feel closely connected. Saturn interaspects tend to be very binding.
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Mars – Saturn Aspects in Synastry: Relationship Astrology
When Mars in one person’s chart forms an aspect to their partner’s Saturn, special handling is required. The hard aspects in particular can be very problematic. The conjunction of Mars and Saturn in synastry is best understood when you consider the individual energies of these two planets. The qualities of the sign that Saturn occupies points to expressions that do not come naturally to Saturn. Saturn feels awkward or inhibited expressing the energies of the sign, and often will try to compensate by trying to exercise control over these characteristics in his or her personality. In contrast, the characteristics of the sign that Mars occupies are expressed fully, naturally, and with enthusiasm! You can only imagine what this means in a relationship. If both individuals are considerate of each other, and are growth-oriented, the relationship can be a great learning experience. For example, if the conjunction occurs in Aries, the Mars individual will take action, and express his or her “me-first” tendency freely and unabashedly. Aries, quite simply, comes naturally to Mars! Saturn, on the other hand, feels unnatural expressing these traits. Perhaps Saturn feels guilty when taking the lead. Where Mars rushes right in, Saturn carefully appraises the situation before he goes into it, if he doesn’t withdraw from it altogether. Mars can have much to learn from Saturn. Mars can learn how to think a little before acting, and tone down his or her aggressiveness and impatience. As well, Saturn has much to learn from Mars. Saturn may secretly long to be just like Mars, going after what it wants without fear of failure.
On the other hand, if Mars is not sensitive to Saturn’s feelings of inadequacy, he or she may simply assert independence, tease Saturn for being inept or withdrawn, and run roughshod over Saturn’s feelings. Similarly, if Saturn doesn’t want to face up to his or her own feelings of inadequacy, Saturn may do everything in their power to bring Mars down, control Mars, and limit Mars’ expression.
When Mars squares, quincunxes, or opposes Saturn in synastry, this second scenario is quite likely. At the beginning of the relationship, Saturn is often unfettered by Mars’ energy, and may even find it attractive. With time, Saturn becomes annoyed with Mars’ seeming lack of discipline and “childishness”. How Saturn handles this will be very important. Unfortunately, very often the Saturn native uses subtle ways to undermine the Mars native’s confidence. Saturn attempts to control Mars by limiting, blocking, and undermining Mars. Mars feels like he or she is always in the wrong in Saturn’s eyes. When Mars laughs naturally and freely, Saturn stares at Mars with a superior look, as if Mars is being foolish. Saturn may criticize Mars for everything from the way Mars dresses to how he or she behaves with others. Saturn perceives Mars as over-confident and frivolous, gets annoyed at the drop of a hat, and lets Mars know, either with direct criticism or a general air of disapproval. For a while, Mars tries to win back Saturn’s favor. After all, the very traits that Saturn seemed to love about Mars at the beginning of the relationship have turned into things to criticize. The nature of Mars is rather aggressive, however, so this period will likely be short-lived. Mars will then become angry at Saturn for all of Saturn’s overly-serious behavior and disapproval. Mars may rebel and flaunt themselves before Saturn, which in turn makes Saturn feel all the more need to inhibit and restrict Mars. Can you see where this is going? The relationship has turned into living hell. Any latent aggressive tendencies in either individual become larger than life. At the very least, verbal abusiveness can result. Physical aggression is sometimes the next step if these discordant energies get out of hand. Eventually, Mars will want to leave, which can anger Saturn even more. These aspects require special handling, and both parties should be growth-oriented in order to manage the discordant energies.
The trine and sextile create a different energy. There is a constancy and predictability in the Saturn person that Mars finds very attractive. At restless times in our lives, however, predictability can sometimes be equated with boredom. However, much of the time, Mars takes comfort in the knowledge that Saturn’s passions are really quite constant. The Mars person knows that Saturn will be there when needed. Mars can depend on Saturn. This aspect can be a very stabilizing one. Predictability and dependability are virtues that can sometimes be overshadowed by more glamorous “features” of relationships, and it is normal for these qualities to be undervalued from time to time. However, it’s also a good idea to take the time every now and again to appreciate the overall stability of your relationship. At times, Mars may feel a little self-conscious about introducing new ways of doing things, particularly in the bedroom, as a result of Saturn’s constancy. However, Mars may be surprised to find a warm audience in Saturn, and Saturn is likely to appreciate the Mars individual’s initiative, perceiving him or her to be a masterful initiator. Much will depend, however, on the condition of Mars and Saturn natally.
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When Mars in one person’s chart forms an aspect to their partner’s Saturn, special handling is required. The hard aspects in particular can be very problematic. The conjunction of Mars and Saturn in synastry is best understood when you consider the individual energies of these two planets. The qualities of the sign that Saturn occupies points to expressions that do not come naturally to Saturn. Saturn feels awkward or inhibited expressing the energies of the sign, and often will try to compensate by trying to exercise control over these characteristics in his or her personality. In contrast, the characteristics of the sign that Mars occupies are expressed fully, naturally, and with enthusiasm! You can only imagine what this means in a relationship. If both individuals are considerate of each other, and are growth-oriented, the relationship can be a great learning experience. For example, if the conjunction occurs in Aries, the Mars individual will take action, and express his or her “me-first” tendency freely and unabashedly. Aries, quite simply, comes naturally to Mars! Saturn, on the other hand, feels unnatural expressing these traits. Perhaps Saturn feels guilty when taking the lead. Where Mars rushes right in, Saturn carefully appraises the situation before he goes into it, if he doesn’t withdraw from it altogether. Mars can have much to learn from SaturnMars can learn how to think a little before acting, and tone down his or her aggressiveness and impatience. As well, Saturn has much to learn from Mars. Saturn may secretly long to be just like Mars, going after what it wants without fear of failure.
On the other hand, if Mars is not sensitive to Saturn’s feelings of inadequacy, he or she may simply assert independence, tease Saturn for being inept or withdrawn, and run roughshod over Saturn’s feelings. Similarly, if Saturn doesn’t want to face up to his or her own feelings of inadequacy, Saturn may do everything in their power to bring Mars down, control Mars, and limit Mars’ expression.
When Mars squares, quincunxes, or opposes Saturn in synastry, this second scenario is quite likely. At the beginning of the relationship, Saturn is often unfettered by Mars’ energy, and may even find it attractive. With time, Saturn becomes annoyed with Mars’ seeming lack of discipline and “childishness”. How Saturn handles this will be very important. Unfortunately, very often the Saturn native uses subtle ways to undermine the Mars native’s confidence. Saturn attempts to control Mars by limiting, blocking, and undermining Mars. Mars feels like he or she is always in the wrong in Saturn’s eyes. When Mars laughs naturally and freely, Saturn stares at Mars with a superior look, as if Mars is being foolish. Saturn may criticize Mars for everything from the way Mars dresses to how he or she behaves with others. Saturn perceives Mars as over-confident and frivolous, gets annoyed at the drop of a hat, and lets Mars know, either with direct criticism or a general air of disapproval. For a while, Mars tries to win back Saturn’s favor. After all, the very traits that Saturn seemed to love about Mars at the beginning of the relationship have turned into things to criticize. The nature of Mars is rather aggressive, however, so this period will likely be short-lived. Mars will then become angry at Saturn for all of Saturn’s overly-serious behavior and disapproval. Mars may rebel and flaunt themselves before Saturn, which in turn makes Saturn feel all the more need to inhibit and restrict Mars. Can you see where this is going? The relationship has turned into living hell. Any latent aggressive tendencies in either individual become larger than life. At the very least, verbal abusiveness can result. Physical aggression is sometimes the next step if these discordant energies get out of hand. Eventually, Mars will want to leave, which can anger Saturn even more. These aspects require special handling, and both parties should be growth-oriented in order to manage the discordant energies.
The trine and sextile create a different energy. There is a constancy and predictability in the Saturn person that Mars finds very attractive. At restless times in our lives, however, predictability can sometimes be equated with boredom. However, much of the time, Mars takes comfort in the knowledge that Saturn’s passions are really quite constant. The Mars person knows that Saturn will be there when needed. Mars can depend on Saturn. This aspect can be a very stabilizing one. Predictability and dependability are virtues that can sometimes be overshadowed by more glamorous “features” of relationships, and it is normal for these qualities to be undervalued from time to time. However, it’s also a good idea to take the time every now and again to appreciate the overall stability of your relationship. At times, Mars may feel a little self-conscious about introducing new ways of doing things, particularly in the bedroom, as a result of Saturn’s constancy. However, Mars may be surprised to find a warm audience in Saturn, and Saturn is likely to appreciate the Mars individual’s initiative, perceiving him or her to be a masterful initiator. Much will depend, however, on the condition of Mars and Saturn natally.
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Symbolism Of Saturn And Mars
In astrology, Mars symbolizes passion, determination, conflicts, aggressiveness, masculinity, carnal desires, troubles, warfare, and vitality. Mars is also regarded as a healer that reveals to us our courage, desires, will, and sensuality.
On the other hand, Saturn lacks the passion and fierceness commonly associated with Mars. Instead, it is used to depict ailments, hardship, despair, limitations, misery, restrictions, and sorrow.
On the positive side, Saturn also represents stability, loyalty, reliance, responsibility, and organization. Since Saturn is mostly concerned with tradition, history, and ancestry, it is not open to changes.
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Mars Aspects
Mars shows what a woman is attracted to in a man. Being with a man who is strong in her Mars element, or who makes close sextiles with her Mars, makes the relationship much easier, and increases sexual desire and compatibility. For a man, his Mars is part of his masculine nature, so it is best when his partner also relates well with this element.
Mars Opposition Saturn
You may get the feeling that your assertiveness and drive are restricted by your partner, as though you are constantly being checked, watched, and judged. You will need to discover together what you really want from your romantic relationship in order to overcome the limitations you have placed upon yourselves. When the first persons Mars is in opposition to the second persons Saturn, there will be considerable feeling of frustration where your life together can seem like a struggle against overwhelming odds which will take patience, forbearance, and persevering effort to overcome.
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Mars in 9th House synastry relationships are formed between people who are dynamically active and developing in spiritual, intellectual, scientific, cognitive, and social spheres of life. The partners stimulate, convince and even compel each other to engage in common causes with full dedication. With Mars’s negativity, the coerced partner begins to actively protest against the influence of the other one, which naturally leads to conflicts of varying severity. Normally, Mars in Ninth House synastry partners love joint travel and business trips both from an educational and a business point of view. With Mars’s negativity, however, such travel can be unsafe due to imprudent conflicts and inconsistencies between the parties. The “Martian” personality considers the personality of the Ninth House to be dreamy, soaring in the clouds, and impractical by nature. The latter considers the “Martian” personality spiritless, narrow-minded, stubborn, and aggressive in its intentions and point of view. In general, this synastry is promising when abstract philosophy needs to be realized in concrete material actions as the partners stimulate each other in the implementation of spiritual and religious projects.
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Mars in 9th House Synastry Explained Mars in 9th House synastry partners pose a certain danger to your life: it is likely that they will try to take you on a dangerous long journey, or at least greatly distract you from routine household chores. In any case, this is how you will perceive their energetic activity: it will appear strange but somehow attractive; and, perhaps, it will inspire you like a muse of distant wanderings. If you are inclined to self-improvement or expanding your consciousness, then Mars in Ninth House Synastry partners can provide you with invaluable help in this: from them, you will receive the support you need for the first steps, and it is likely that they will not spare their efforts. However, having provided you with some esoteric guidance, these partners will quickly get bored if you ask them to actually get down to assist you as their energy will instantly disappear (unless their Jupiter is in conjunction with their Sun in your Third House — then the enthusiasm may last for a longer time). In a negative relationship or at a low level of spiritual evolution, the activities and work of your Mars in 9th House Synastry partners can cause you a feeling of envy and an inferiority complex. Their skills will seem to you almost supernatural and unattainable for you personally; however, having humbled your pride, you can learn a lot from them, so even if you don’t reach their level you’ll get a considerable impulse for your own development. All in all, you and your Mars in 9th House synastry partners will never be bored with each other, and if you find ways of constructive cooperation this aspect can prove very effective in achieving your long-term life goals.
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Mars Square Chiron Synastry
The Mars square Chiron synastry aspect means that, through conflict, Mars re-opens Chiron’s past hurts and wounds. Just by being themselves, Mars triggers Chiron in a big way.
This can manifest through the way that Mars acts socially, how driven they are for financial reward, how they work, or how they think of new ideas. Something about one of these areas (look to the houses for clearer information) conflicts with Chiron’s insecurities. They get this strong nagging feeling when they observe Mars acting that makes them either want to run away or fight.
If the aspect is conscious, then Chiron might feel that Mars is too harsh or even cruel, while Mars might feel that Chiron is far too sensitive about perceived slights. Chiron thinks that Mars just doesn’t get them or care about their insecurities, while Mars feels like they’re constantly walking on eggshells.
The way that Mars acts out will hurt Chiron with Mars square Chiron synastry. When Mars makes an effort to connect, Chiron can actually see this effort as triggering their wound, making for a disjointed relationship.
Even if Chiron has done a lot of self-work, they will be extremely triggered by Mars. This is a tough aspect. But as always, it’s a good opportunity for Chiron to do even more inner work.
Typically with the Mars square Chiron synastry relationship, Chiron is triggered because Mars reminds them of what they lack, of what they feel is wrong about themselves. It’s not that Mars has what Chiron feels they lack, but simply that their very presence points it out.
It’s important for Chiron to remember that Mars is a teacher. They can only learn about their wound if it’s triggered.
In romantic relationships, the Mars square Chiron synastry aspect is tricky, but it CAN be worked through with a lot of effort and communication. Both people must learn to understand what hurts the other, and Mars must be exceptionally willing to understand Chiron’s insecurities, even if they seem stupid.
Chiron should focus on being less sensitive. The way to do this is by working through the wounds when they arise instead of reacting and by communicating more clearly to Mars, to explain what’s happening inside of them. But Mars should also work to explain their motivation more clearly so that Chiron isn’t left in the dark, thinking the worst of their actions.